Case study
Situation: Denise Acton (not her real name) is a 29-year-old mother
of three. As a young person she proved too troublesome for her
parents - she was often arrested and involved in car stealing and
robbery. She was, in her words, "packed off" to social services.
She was 14 and remained in care until she was 18.
Problem: After reading a report in her local paper that the social
services department was about to have its joint review, Acton
decided she would like to speak to the inspectors. She wanted to
let them know how badly she was treated in the council's children's
home she lived in. While acknowledging that some staff were good,
she complained that three staff physically assaulted her. While
being restrained on one occasion, one of them knocked out a tooth
and bruised her eye. She was regularly physically restrained,
locked in her room and threatened with violence if she did not do
as she was told. She did not complain at the time for fear of
retribution, and who would believe her - a "no-good girl" - anyway?
The home - then run by a county council rather than the unitary
authority that has since replaced it - closed eight years ago. None
of the staff now work for social services. Her social work file is
incomplete and her children's home file cannot be found - seemingly
lost in the transfer of councils. It seems it all happened too long
ago and nobody can do anything. panel responses
Rachel Reynolds
Although it happened a long time ago and the children's
home has now closed, the present local authority still has a
commitment to listen to Denise, to look into the events of what
happened and to see whether any lessons can be learned to ensure it
could not happen again.
It would appear that Denise has had a very poor experience of
living in a children's home and there are several options open to
her:
Whatever the outcome of the investigation, it is important to see whether any lessons can be learned. Perhaps Denise would be willing to become involved in shaping future children's policies, either locally through a young people's support group, or nationally through the Who Cares? Trust, where she would have the opportunity to be active in improving services for young people in care.
User view
This tale has a familiar ring, writes Peter Saunders. Denise was
abused in care but she now has a chance to do something about it.
She has a right to be heard and believed. That is very important if
she is to move on and she may well still be affected by her
experiences. The fact that she was a tearaway in her youth gave no
one the right to beat her.
Her records are missing. They will be somewhere and someone should
take the responsibility to find them. The fact that none of the
staff now work for social services does not mean they are still not
working with children or vulnerable adults. Denise is only 29. It
is not that long since these incidents took place and the abusers
could easily be working somewhere else. They should be traced.
Denise remembers the "good staff". They should also be traced and
questioned. Denise and the "good staff" may benefit from a meeting.
They may deserve a thank-you, but it is conspiracies of silence
that often allow abuse to go unchecked.
"Nobody can do anything" is just not good enough. With the will a
lot can be done. Denise may benefit from counselling. Abuse often
leaves deep, indelible scars and if people are not supported and
helped to put the past behind them they may never move on. Worse
still, they may perpetuate the violence they "learned" as a child.
Denise has three children. They also need to be considered.
Sometimes people who are abused experience parenting difficulties -
who doesn't? - but she may need extra support. To ignore Denise now
is tantamount to re-abusing her because, instead of feeling
empowered, she may feel oppressed and worthless - as she did when
it happened.
The National Association for People Abused in Childhood (Napac)
hears from many people who were abused as children. The
consequences are far-reaching, for the victim and for society. Many
social problems have their roots in child abuse.
We cannot turn back the clock and we cannot take away the abuse
Denise suffered but she can still get justice. Unfortunately, if
she is not heard and believed she may have to seek an alternative
route. She may pursue a civil action against the authorities and
may then be accused, as many former victims of abuse are, of only
doing it "for the money". In the six years at Napac not once have I
heard an abuse survivor mention money. All they want is to heal
from the painful memories.
Peter Saunders is founder and development manager of Napac.
He is a survivor of child abuse.