The government has announced measures to help people who want to trace children they gave up for adoption. New registered adoption support agencies in England will act as a go-between and support both parents and adoptees.It is estimated that some two million people might be interested in applying to an adoption support agency or might be the subject of an application. The initiative is aimed at ending the current postcode lottery where in some parts of the country there is no specialist counselling available.
Julia Ross, social services director, London Borough of
Barking and Dagenham
"Parenting is a two-way thing, as every parent and child knows. The
cycle of life from child to parent and later to a different
relationship with children who themselves become parents is rich,
changing and challenging. Knowing who we are and where we came from
and why is everyone's right. We all want different things at
different stages and adoptive parents, children and those who gave
their child up for adoption - willingly or otherwise - need to be
part of that jigsaw. They alone, however, can decide whether they
want to exercise that right. These new arrangements will be in all
our interests, as long as they support what will for some be
painful experiences and are flexibly open to people's changing life
patterns."
Felicity Collier, chief executive, Baaf Adoption and
Fostering
"As this service has already been provided by many agencies, the
support needs of those affected are known. Equal access to an
intermediary service for all birth relatives is huge progress. It
is sad that this cannot be free because there will be some
disadvantaged birth parents, who might rely on pensions, who cannot
afford to pay and will need charitable funds. Another form of
postcode lottery?"
Lisa Harker, chair, Daycare Trust
"It is abhorrent to think that for so many years meeting the needs
of birth parents of adopted children has been dependent simply on
the goodwill of certain agencies. With sensitivity and careful
balancing of the wishes of adoptees and birth relatives, the
proposed new intermediary service will help ease a considerable
amount of anguish. In a society as sophisticated and civilised as
our own we should expect nothing less."