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The names of the sisters have changed

Situation: Jasmine Small, eight, and her sister Rosie, five, have been fostered for eight months. Their parents, both drug users, had a violent and abusive relationship - their father would pimp for their mother in order to get money for drugs. The children were taken into care because of their parents' dangerous lifestyles and neglect.

Problem: Jasmine is quiet and resourceful but Rosie is noisy, demanding and destructive. Social services placed the sisters together at first but the first two placements broke down because of Rosie smashing up the property. Both sets of carers had said that they would happily continue to care for Jasmine - who was "perfect" - but not Rosie whose behaviour was uncontrollable. Indeed, Jasmine returned to the first carers while Rosie was placed with specialist therapeutic carers. They both attended a therapeutic centre twice a week partly for contact and partly for ongoing therapy. Their mother has recently recontacted social services saying she has left her partner, is determined to give up drugs and wants her "babies" back. However, she missed her first arranged contact. The social workers had been moving towards adoption but while they would like the sisters to be together, they are increasingly persuaded that, for Jasmine's sake, she should be separately adopted. However, during some role play Rosie gave a line of her "cuddlies" all male names except one, whom she hugged and called "Jasmine".

Practice Panel Liverpool social services - children  and families team

Panel Responses

Steve Oliver
We need to consider the following: should the birth mother be given a further chance? Do the children need to be separated or placed together in order to meet their needs? What support should be provided to improve Rosie's behaviour and over what timescale?

The birth mother has cited a significant change in her life and has requested "another chance" to care for her children. Here in Liverpool, we have a "families first" philosophy and we would give careful consideration to this request.

But there would need to be reliable evidence that any rehabilitation plan had a good chance of success within a reasonable timescale before a change of plan from permanent alternative care is put in place. In this instance a short, time-limited viability assessment should provide sufficient information to answer this question. However, the mother's failure to attend contact is not a good start.

Assuming rehabilitation is ruled out, should the children be placed together? A full assessment of the quality of the sibling relationship will be necessary. Decisions to separate children should only be taken on the basis of a full assessment and having considered support options for prospective adopters.(1)

Timescales are also crucial. Just as children often do not have time to wait for their birth parents to change, neither should the chances of permanence for one child be sacrificed by waiting for a sibling to be ready.

However, contact is one way of managing any such separation. Sibling contact is an essential factor in coping with separation and research indicates that it can be the essential ingredient in a successful plan for a permanent arrangement for the sisters' future.

Finally, it would be worthwhile discussing how individual therapeutic needs can be met for both children, in particular Rosie, using the adoption support regulations.

(1) J Lord and S Borthwick, Together or Apart: Assessing Brothers and Sisters for Permanent Family Placement, BAAF, 2001. Also see A Mullender, We are Family: Sibling Relationships in Placement and Beyond, BAAF, 1999

Jill Thorburn
The social worker would first need to rule out any natural reason for Rosie's behaviour. It might be that she has learning needs or possibly has a condition such as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). A psychological assessment of both children may be necessary.

It is clear that Rosie is attached to Jasmine and that every effort should be made to place these two young children together.

The reasons why they respond so differently to their circumstances may never be fully understood. It may well be that Jasmine is a more resilient child than Rosie. However, Jasmine might be internalising her feelings rather than demonstrating her upset in the way Rosie does. It is important that Jasmine has the opportunity with her carers and in her therapy sessions to fully express rather than suppress her emotions and thoughts.

Jasmine possibly experienced a less chaotic home life when she was a very young child which has helped her develop a sense that the world is not a totally unsafe place. Possibly due to Rosie's age she may well not have the vocabulary to vocalise her distress so that her carers and therapists will need to find creative ways of helping her express her feelings.

Before considering whether the two girls could be placed back with their mother a parenting assessment of both her and her partner should take place. It is a concern that so soon after expressing her wish to have her "babies back" she failed to attend her first arranged contact.

To be able to plan a permanent arrangement for the girls' future the social worker would need to fully explore the reasons why the previous placements had broken down. There is a real risk of a self-fulfilling prophecy happening with these two siblings. By the age of five Rosie has experienced at least two major failed attachments and is now so "uncontrollable" she has to be placed in a specialised therapeutic foster placement.

The main focus of all work with the two girls should be a plan for permanence. A twin-tracking approach must be used to ensure there is no delay in the progression of their care plan. The assessment of their parents will take place alongside the identification of an adoptive family for Rosie and Jasmine.


User View

Jasmine and Rosie have been through a lot, having been taken away from their parents, their family, home comforts and familiar surroundings. Even though their parents' relationship has been violent and abusive it's what they know, writes Chantelle Gordon. 

The two girls are sisters but they have different personalities and characters. Rosie's behaviour is probably her way of coping with what's happening to her and getting attention. It's good that Rosie is going to therapeutic carers. Even though these two girls are young, kids pick up on what's happening around them, and this has been a major change in their lives.  

Jasmine is quiet and well behaved, but might be in turmoil internally and is not able to deal with it. This needs to be looked at now or she might bottle it up - with devastating effect in future years.  

I don't think at this moment they should separate the sisters. Jasmine and Rosie have been through a lot and Rosie's behaviour could get worse if they split them up. I think it's too early to have the sisters adopted. Has any one sat down and asked them if they understand what's happened?  

If they do not understand now, as they get older I feel their past history should be explained to them in a way they can understand. Have social workers explained what adoption means and if the sisters would like to stay together or go to different placements?  

The social workers should always listen to what Jasmine and Rosie want even if what the girls are saying is unrealistic. At least they're being listened to and their voices are being heard.  

Their mother not turning up to visit the girls is a bad sign, because she could have called or sent a message to the girls, even if she couldn't make it. This is not good for the girls because they need some familiarity and stability in their lives. If their mother is serious, she needs to make the effort. She needs to get off the drugs and get clean.  

Have social workers been in contact with the children's mother to really look at her situation and whether she is telling the truth about splitting up with the kids' father?  

Also, what's his view of the situation? No matter what he's done he's still Jasmine and Rosie's father. How do the children feel about seeing him? 

Chantelle Gordon is a recent care leaver and is now a teenage pregnancy prevention worker