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Posted: 27 April 2005 | Subscribe Online


Mel, 14, became a volunteer peer mediator after restorative justice sessions helped her with problems she was having at Montgomery secondary school in Blackpool.

"I used to get picked on by a group who really had it in for me," she says. "They called me names and followed me around all the time, tormenting me. Even when teachers intervened they didn't stop and it made me very sad."

Then she went through a mediation session with her aggressors. She says: "It really sorted out the situation. The girls agreed they would leave me alone, even if we wouldn't be friends, and that was fine. In fact they are much friendlier now. Then somebody asked me if I'd be interested in doing the training myself and I felt, having been through that, I'd have experience to offer and I liked the idea of being able to help other kids.

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"The training helped me learn more about how people feel and how I might be able to best help them. It also helped me cope better myself when another nasty incident occurred. I became more confident with other children and it led me to get involved with the school council."

Mel has carried out more than 20 mediations and through this she has seen how easily, if her own problems had gone on, it might have led her to truant from school or become aggressive and a bully herself.

"The mediations are often over quite small things but what often happens is that people stop playing tough and the aggressors, as well as the person being victimised, may get upset and even cry. But of course there are always stubborn people who don't want to change their behaviour and we can't make them."

There is support for this brand of conflict resolution from high places. Rod Morgan, chair of the Youth Justice Board says: "We know that teachers cannot be expected to put up with poor behaviour and disruption in the classroom. We also know that children excluded from school are much more likely to commit crime.

Restorative justice can be used to solve all types of issues including bullying, name-calling, vandalism, theft, assault, teacher-pupil conflict and non-attendance. And it can be used in place of fixed-term or permanent exclusion."

The RJ philosophy - often written into school policy when it is adopted - stems from the same root as emotional literacy. The idea is to help children and young people understand their actions, take responsibility for them and find ways of resolving difficulties themselves. It is used for anything from bad behaviour in the classroom when a teacher may be able to use the RJ approach on a one-to-one basis, to acrimony between pupils where intervention is needed. Pupils who have to be taken out of the classroom may be dealt with by one or two staff members, and possibly with involvement from a trained-up peer mediator. Often, schools using RJ talk of being startled at how responsive even their most challenging children have been when they are given the chance to express themselves and participate in the process of justice.

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To develop restorative justice projects, the YJB turned to Leap Confronting Conflict, a youth charity with a focus on personal and social education of young people for the benefit of the community as a whole. As well as offering training for restorative justice in schools it runs the national Young Mediators' Network (youngmediatorsnetwork.org) where young volunteers of very different backgrounds and experiences come together to learn to understand conflict and train up as peer mediators.

Young Mediators' Network project co-ordinator Gemma Davis says: "The great virtue of young people working with others is that they may be able to help peers in difficulties to find creative solutions that an adult could not."

The idea is that problems should be caught before they escalate, and it is here that peer mediation is seen as so valuable. Peer mediation is now being widely adopted in schools where staff understand how differently children may react if they feel they are involved in the process of discipline rather than experiencing the imposition of discipline from an authority figure.

Leap sees restorative justice as an umbrella under which different kinds of conflict resolution initiatives can happen. Davis says: "It is about putting the power firmly in the hands of those involved in conflict. When worked with creatively, conflict is an opportunity for growth and change."

Tension reduced:

Graham Robb introduced restorative justice at Drayton School in Banbury, Oxfordshire, when he was head teacher. It has made a great difference to the school he says. Most of their conflicts are now successfully dealt with this way, there are fewer exclusions and the school's most recent Ofsted report praised the school's ethos. Plus, Robb asserts, it is an education in citizenship for life beyond school . Drayton was on special measures in 2000 and Harriet Wall, who was working on RJ at the school describes what it was like at this time: "A lot of difficulties with relationships, low self-esteem in many of the pupils, bad educational under-achievement and a lot of tensions between staff and pupils."

 



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