by Jarone Macklin-PageWhen I heard about the
proposed closure of Essex Council's residential children's homes I felt sick. Councillor Sarah Candy was quoted as saying the 36 children affected would have "individualised care plans" detailing where they will move if the proposal is approved. She added that any moves would be handled "with the utmost sensitivity".
Well Councillor Candy I would like to suggest to you, and the government, that if you are serious about handling things with "sensitivity" you don't go and knock on people's doors saying "sorry, your home costs us too much to run so we're going to close it down and send you to a new one".
To say that children's homes are ineffective is utter lunacy. Before I moved into a children's home I was offered the nicest foster placement you could imagine, and I turned it down because that was my living hell.
Living with the perfect family after coming from my dysfunctional one, to put it mildly, was not an option. At that time in my life, I just wanted to be alone and to go to a place where family was not an issue.
When I was in the home, I was given the space to make my own decisions, in addition to gaining all the guidance and help that I could have wished for.
Children's homes have evolved so much, and will continue to evolve if allowed. To me everyone in that house was my family. I will always be indebted to them for what they did, and still to this day, five years after leaving, I go back to visit my old children's home. The people who work in children's homes do amazing work for very little thanks and we could all learn a lot from them.
In an ideal world we would not be having this discussion because every child would be at home with a loving family, but sadly this is not an ideal world, and we need children's homes just as much as we need foster care and adoption. Otherwise these children will have been let down, not just by their parents, but by their council and their government.
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