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The Bridge and Broadchurch: Why do fictional villains so often have a back story of adoption?

As we all mourn the end of ITV’s Broadchurch, Sally Donovan asks whether the back story of one character is just the latest example of a fictional stereotype that casts adopted people as damaged, at best, and violent criminals, at worst Fiction devises its villains to shock and unnerve us, to make us question our [...]

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Social work diary: ‘Dear media, matching children with adopters is NOT like speed dating’

Media sniping about adoption delays ignores the complex realities faced by social workers when finding the right placement for children in care, writes an anonymous social worker. Monday Newspapers carry stories of the lengthy time adoptions take, as if it were an easy process. This morning I visit the relatives of a baby in care. [...]

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Potential adopters need nurture not negativity

Many potential adopters are often put off the idea even before the process begins. Sally Donovan, adoptive mother of two, makes a plea for social workers to be empathetic with those taking the first steps into adoption. You pick up the phone with a stomach full of nerves to make the first tentative enquiry. You [...]

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Video: Why peers want adoption law to be updated

In case you’re interested, here’s the chair of the House of Lords’ committee on adoption legislation, Baroness Butler-Sloss, explaining why peers have today recommended that adoption law should be amended.  Most urgent is the need to update the children and families bill to make post-adoption support a legal right for adoptive families. Couldn’t agree more. [...]

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‘Martin Narey is right, contact can be ‘frightening and destabilising’ for adopted children’

The government plans to change the law so that social workers no longer have a duty to promote contact between birth parents and adopted children. Is this a good thing? Sally Donovan gives an adoptive parent’s perspective. For some adoptive families, direct face-to-face contact with birth families, or indirect contact by letter, works well, helping adopted [...]

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‘Despite the darkest periods, I will never regret adopting our children’: A message to adopters

Following the news that the government is to pilot personalised support budgets for adoptive parents, Sally Donovan has a powerful, personal message for the state, and anyone thinking of adopting a child Since beginning the adoption process adecade ago, the government’s plan to give adoptive parents personalised budgets feels like the best chance there has [...]

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How do you rate ministers’ latest adoption move?

Yesterday’s announcement that councils could lose their role in the adoption screening process is the government’s most radical adoption proposal so far.  (And there have been a few; others include the not-very-popular adoption hotspots map and the equally unpopular adoption score cards that rate local authorities on their adoption performance). It’s not a new threat [...]

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‘I leave thinking about how else to support them’: A day in the life of a children’s services manager

Sal Steeple works as a children’s servicesdevelopment manager for Barnardo’s south west. She oversees strategic and operational management for services across 16 rural and urban local authority areas, to recruit and provide fostercarers and adopters.  Here she explains a typical day: I get up at 6am and fire up my laptop, hopingto do an hour’s [...]

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Is Tim Loughton right to say the children’s agenda has been ‘greatly downgraded’ since the reshuffle?

Tim Loughton’s now notorious appearance before the education select committee makes for highly interesting, and amusing, viewing. As well as complaining that he’d had no formal exit interview when he was shuffled, and claiming there is an ‘Upstairs, Downstairs’ mentality at the Department for Education, the ex-children’s minister likened former boss Michael Gove to a [...]

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‘Like a computer virus, low self-esteem spreads silently, corrupting and wreaking havoc’

Millions of young people, like the late film star MarilynMonroe, suffer from cripplingly low self-esteem following early childhood pain and rejection. Here, adoptive mother-of-two Sally Donovan describes theimpact low self-esteem has had on her family, and what it’s taught her Back in the day when I was a student at one of our mostprivileged institutions, [...]

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