Service user choice is a fine thing but leads to dilemmas when those choices put too much pressure on other, already concerned, family members, as Jennifer Harvey relates from her own recent experienceby Jennifer Harvey
Months have gone by, and emotions are less raw. My mum is now in a nursing home, having been assessed as needing 24-hour nursing and EMI (elderly mentally ill) care.
It's been a long haul, and too distressing to write about for a while. In many ways the worst is over, in some ways it is yet to come.












