Blaming parents is one part of the possible solution, however I believe that Gov bodies have taken away a lot of the responsibilites on how to cope and 'punish' their children.
Whilst I don't agree with violence, hitting children etc, I do believe that there should be some form of punishment so that the young can learn what is accepted and what is not. Asbo's don't work. They break them over and over again, and what happens? Nothing, because there is very little the authorities can do.
By placing them into a home does not work. They get all the rights, they get all the games they want, computers, TV etc, Mobile phones, pocket money, yet they still mis-behave.
I saw a company spend £16,000 on one report and 4 weeks councelling (1 hour each day). It didn't work. £16,000 wasted, and that's only one client. It was done as a last resort. They had been taken away on holiday and still played up.
I feel that we here in the UK have made is too hard to deal with child mis-behaviour. The police can't touch them, yet they can assault some elderly person, take his/her money, and get away with it.
Many adults of today have grown up with the same enviromental attitude as we have today, so can we blame the parents for what their children as doing. Many have no controll at all over their children, yet are expected to take the blame, and are punished if the child refuses to go to school?
We can have all the political meetings etc, spending millions on what is happening, and what should be done, but in the end, nothing has been done to truly come up with answers that are effective.
I am afraid that we have lost controll over our youth of today. I don't know the answer.
Blessings
Rev Jack.