Hi Rach, If I'm doing a parenting assessment I need to establish the baseline, which is what you've got from registration, mum isn't parenting. Next, break parenting down e.g boundaries, stimulation, emotional attachment, social presentation, housing and environmental factors, access to community resources are they utilised, support networks, routine, mealtimes, accessing other agencies health etc.
We do morning routine, what does child have for breakfast? is nappy changed? any stimulation? eye contact? talked to? dressed appropriately? At the end of the session I give feedback I start with what they did well, then do what wasn't done then say how it can be improved. Evening routine we look at bathtime, bedtime, read a book if appropriate, does the child go to sleep ok? In own bed? Is bedding appropriate? Is cot/bed appropriate? we do mealtime observations too. if parenting is really lacking what parenting courses are available in the area. We have 2 types we can access webster-stratten and Hannen. Take her (or him) to parent and babies groups the first time then set the routine for her to do it. Parents need to be aware that if they don't co-operate what the consequences are. There is a fine line between co-ersion and co-operation and as for saying she doesn't need parenting skills the law and safeguarding children says she does. Once you've done an observation and they have the feedback or identified resources to implement change then you look at maintainance, re-iterate if you need too. Service user don't get everything first time. If you demonstrate everything you have put in place to change the circumstances for that child and mum still doesn't co-operate then that is your assessment and basis for recommendation.
The idea's you've stated sound good to me but I wouldn't spend 2 weeks going with her. I would maybe get her some info on various resources and ask which one she wants to do. go with her the first time or just take her. She might not want a social worker wih her. You could just spend an hour with her playing with baby show her what you would do. Regardless of what has been said before she obviously isn't doing it, ask her what she learned from it and how she does this in practice with baby. This can be compared with what you observe and begin form your strentghs and weaknesses for analysis of case.
the problem is always defining 'good enough parenting' it's a muddy area but it can be demonstrated if you can support your argument so you might also like to look at a book called the incredible years by webster-stratten. It is a well researched child development and parenting book. the parenting classes are highly regarded and the book supports the classess.
hope this helps and I haven't waffled too much. Good luck