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  • 03-12-2008 11:37 AM

    • Aimes
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    parent and child placements

    Has anybody heard of parent and child placements? They are where a parent and child goes to stay with a foster carer when a council is trying to assess the parents' ability to parent. They are being used more frequently due to legal aid cuts meaning that there is less money available for parents to be sent to family assessment centres. They seem like a good idea in principle but they do put a lot of strain on the foster carer who is required (alongside lots of professionals) 'observe' how the parent is doing.

     

     

  • 03-13-2008 12:59 PM In reply to

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    I have used these on a couple of occasions and I do think that although they are beneficial, the foster carers have to be aware of who the client is.  I know from experience that some foster carers find these placements extremely hard and require a high level of support and also some respite.

  • 03-13-2008 11:11 PM In reply to

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    Yes, we use them when the situation seems to demand it and the 'cost-benefit' can be huge. The most recent case worked out really well for the mother and her child who are now due to move into their own home. It was a real success given that we could have been looking at care proceedings.... Also, the mother has only praise for social services, which is a bonus!

  • 03-14-2008 10:52 AM In reply to

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    Re: parent and child placements

    I have heard that they can be pretty draining on the foster carer who has be with the mother practically 24-7 but that they can be very helpful. I am not sure how they would work when the mother is a bit older though (perhaps a similar age to the foster carer) - I have mainly heard of them being used in terms of younger mothers.

  • 04-08-2008 2:32 PM In reply to

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    Re: parent and child placements

    Sorry I’ve come so late to this thread… Parent and child placements are becoming increasingly common. Local authorities often ask fostering providers for this option, and occasionally requests originate from parents’ solicitors who are trying to find an alternative resource for their clients. Money is an issue but there are undeniable benefits in terms of good child care practice. Parent (usually mother) and child remain together in a family environment, which is not only invariably more comfortable for both child and parent, it is also a closer approximation to the life in the community that social services want assessing. I say assessing: most placements are short to medium term for a parent child assessment and then for further work to improve parent child interaction. Another distinct benefit is that often the parent themselves is very young and they require some safety, guidance and TLC too. I know of several instances where the parent is the looked after child and their baby is not subject to any order. It’s essential that very clear boundaries are set before the placement begins and that all parties, including the parent of course, sign up to them. These should cover key child care responsibilities, specifically when does the foster carer intervene when the parent is deficient in any way. Even then, no agreement can cover everything so you need carers who can be decisive without being interfering and social workers who are prepared to back their judgement. The same applies to the carers’ role in any assessment. The parent must understand and accept this role, and there must be clarity in terms of what the carer is assessing. It’s best that the carer’s role is to provide information in as objective form as possible, with a social worker overseeing the assessment and its conclusions.

     

  • 04-08-2008 3:39 PM In reply to

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    Re: parent and child placements

    Hi Alfie,

    I agree that parent and child placements sound like they can be really helpful. I can definitely see the benefits of parents being allowed to remain near to their own communities rather than being sent to an assessment centre far away and the supportive bond that could potentially develop between the parent and the foster carer. 

    As these placements become more and more popular it will be interesting to see if enough willing suitable foster carers will be available.

     

  • 04-08-2008 3:47 PM In reply to

    • Aimes
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    Re: parent and child placements

    Sorry I should have also put that I have written a feature on this  issue in the 17th April edition of the magazine.

  • 04-10-2008 8:21 AM In reply to

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    Re: parent and child placements

    I'll look forward to that. Fostering provision is my main area of responsibility. More and more carers are expressing an interest. I cannot emphasise enough the importance of professionals offering support, not just as a pressure valve for carers but to be completely clear about the carer's roles and responsibilities. This is of course essential in any placement, but it becomes a particular imperative with a parent and child placement. To put it crudely, but accurately, when the baby is in distress, who sorts it out? In my view they will be used more and more as an alternative to residential assessments or a foster placement, thereby unnecessarily separating the parent and child. There's huge potential benefit for young mothers who themselves need some looking after before they move to independence.

  • 04-20-2008 9:06 PM In reply to

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    It needs to be crystal clear to the mother exactly what the nature of the Placement is - is it a supportive placement or is it an Assessment placement? Given the vulnerability and care needs of some younger mothers it is unfair to place them under intense pressure within a mother-and-baby foster-home placement where the mum will feel under extreme scrutiny and pressure to the extent of not being able to parent her baby 'naturally' - she will always be seeking to please / satisfy the foster-carer. It will also have a direct impact on the nature of the mother-and child v foster-carers relationship.

    Within a Residential Assessment Unit there will be other mothers and babies, more opportunity to relax and behave more naturally and even more opportunity to make mistakes safely and be able to receive staff help, advice and feedback in a less threatening way than on a one-to-one basis within a foster-home where the mum will have no-one else to turn to and will feel unable to do anything other than comply and be submissive.

    Costs are not the issue - it is the quality of the assessment and the skills, knowledge and expertise of the assessors. A Unit may well have access also to a number of different professionals rather than end up relying on what may the subjective view of just the foster-carer.

  • 04-21-2008 11:31 AM In reply to

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    Re: parent and child placements

    I agree that a residential assessment unit might be best for some mothers and babies but I think parent and child placements will be the suitable option for some people. If foster carers recieve the correct training and have the right attitude then they will give mothers space parent their babies themselves and only step in when the parent asks them to/there are problems.

    I appreciate that some mothers may find assessment centres less pressurised due to their being other mothers and babies there but others could thrive due to having one on one help.

  • 04-21-2008 5:04 PM In reply to

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    i have used these before, they can be a very good resource, i guess it just depends on the individual family and competence of the foster carers. Too often residential assessment centres are used when they are not the most appropriate resource, usually just to make someone money.

    Aimes:

    I agree that a residential assessment unit might be best for some mothers and babies but I think parent and child placements will be the suitable option for some people. If foster carers recieve the correct training and have the right attitude then they will give mothers space parent their babies themselves and only step in when the parent asks them to/there are problems.

     i agree... horses for courses..

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