Inside the drug rehab ‘giving children back their mothers’

An inside look at Trevi House, one of few rehabilitation unit that house women and their children to try and keep them together

Some of the staff at Trevi House. Photo: Gary Brigden

“I was living in a squat, using drugs daily, and then I found out I was three months pregnant.”

Samantha* is 38 years old, and a recovering heroin addict. Her drug habit cost her a home and, temporarily, her first two children, who both live in care.

When we meet she is cradling her third child in her arms – the baby she learned about while living in that squat and is desperate not to lose.

“I just couldn’t go through with having an abortion – I couldn’t do it. I continued to use. I was scared she was going to get taken off of me,” Samantha explains.

We are sitting in the busy dining room of Trevi House, the drug and alcohol service Samantha hopes can help her both recover and keep her and her daughter together. This is one of the country’s only residential treatment services to support drug and alcohol addicted mothers while they live on-site alongside their children.

Lasting bonds

Staying for a maximum six months, the service aims to give families the opportunity to grow strong and lasting bonds. An on-site nursery means mothers can get professional support during the day, while children have their emotional needs catered for by expert staff.

Today, as the other mothers leave the room following a lunch filled with chatting and laughter, Samantha’s daughter is staring up at us having her own lunch from a bottle. The pair were referred here after Samantha sought help when she was 32 weeks pregnant.

This is her second time at Trevi after a relapse. She is seven weeks through her planned 13-week stay and this time, she says, she’s committed to making it last.

“They say you have to come here for yourself, it’s not just for the child. I thought I got it [first time], but I didn’t. I think this time is different, because I am doing it for myself and the bonus is I’ve got my child with me…It’s more than a bonus,” Samantha says.

Trevi House

Set up 25 years ago, Trevi sits in a quiet part of Plymouth. The service’s model of intervention focuses on three areas – parenting, addiction and healthy relationships. The aim is to support mothers to develop the practical and emotional skills they’ll need to convince local authorities that their children can stay with them long-term.

Key to achieving this is the staff’s ability to get women to trust them – often by establishing that this is not social services, who many women have had negative experiences with before – and to empower them.

The service has seen good results. A 2016 impact study found that between December 2013 and December 2015, 65% of children left Trevi House with their mums, who were drug and alcohol free. Over the same period 76% of women admitted to the home left drug and alcohol free.

The staff here include key workers, counsellors, a social worker, nursery workers, medical staff to manage detox medication, volunteers and a cleaner. There’s also a cook, Ann, whose singing is just one of the many charming background noises that help make this collection of large buildings, narrow corridors and closed bedroom doors feel bubbly and full of activity.

The service is run by chief executive Hannah Shead, and acting registered manager Tracey Campbell. They say Trevi’s workshops and recovery groups look to help mothers deal with separate, but inevitably inter-linked, issues underpinning their addictions.

“Most families that come here have been in abusive relationships as adults and often as children, so we try to educate women to ensure they make better choices going forward,” Shead says.

Campbell explains that most of the mothers Trevi works had dysfunctional, impoverished or abusive childhoods and have used drink and drugs to help “escape their fears or their emotions”.

Safe

A crucial part of Trevi is the detox programme, which means mothers can stay with their children while coming off methadone, rather than be separated.

A large part of the therapy is to help mothers identify the root causes of their addiction.

Staff constantly monitor progress. Certain sessions are completely confidential unless there is a safeguarding concern. But for the most part placements here work towards supporting families to stay together, and this needs to be evidenced.

“We try to create an environment that’s nurturing, therapeutic and somewhere women feel they can trust us, and we work hard to do that,” says Shead.

“On the other hand we are an extension of the arm of the local authority; if we’ve got concerns about a woman’s parenting we will name it and do something about it.”

Hannah Shead. Photo: Gary Brigden

Hannah Shead. Photo: Gary Brigden

For many mothers, Trevi House is a last chance to prevent their child being taken into care or adopted. While the house often has the desired effect, sometimes the situation doesn’t turn out the way mothers hope.

“We take pregnant women and sometimes they leave without their child, that’s the reality of it,” Shead says.

“But even in those cases, that baby has had a really important experience; they have been with their mum. In terms of their life story further down the line, they have photos of them with their birth mother.

“We will be able to say to the mum: ‘You’ve had a chance, you’ve had an opportunity.’ Something we’re really passionate about here is trying to give mum that opportunity to turn it around in an environment that’s safe.”

Placements here are usually joint-funded between adult and children’s social care services. However, at a combined £1,570 a week cost for a mother and child, the treatment is expensive and cutbacks to council budgets mean some authorities struggle to afford it.

Currently the house is half-full, with no waiting list. Campbell says the service needs about 30 families a year to sustain it.

A nursery worker and child. Photo: Gary Bridgen

A nursery worker and child. Photo: Gary Bridgen

Samantha is glad to have secured a place. She loves it at Trevi and feels the support she receives is a world away from other services she’s used. In the past, she’s felt social services wanted her to fail before she started and gave her “false hope”.

“I think sometimes they can personalise things in the wrong way, [and are] quite closed minded. They think ‘drugs, child, take the baby way’. Whereas maybe a bit of support would be helpful, not just for the parent but for the child,” she says.

She feels she has that support now. Trevi’s workshops and therapy sessions have helped her identify the root cause of her drug abuse, as well as contributing factors she never thought about before.

For Samantha, a key aspect in this has been her feeling able to put her trust in the professionals at Trevi, which she says can be difficult from a “drug-fuelled life”.

Turning it around

Close relationships between the people and the services are evident everywhere. The nursery walls are colourful and adorned with hand-made pictures. Because of the small group sizes, nursery staff are able to focus on each child’s learning style.

For Shead, one case explains the impact the environment can have.

“The mother came here pregnant, she delivered at the hospital and there were a couple of concerns. When they came back we were all feeling a bit worried about how she was interacting with her son, and what we saw in nursery is the changes in the adult reflected in the child,” she says.

“Her son in nursery just wasn’t engaging, but as mum started to really turn it around, suddenly this little baby was just smiling, and the two of them transformed together.”

Each resident of Trevi House might have a story that sounds similar but they are all individuals, and each makes an imprint on staff. Every mother that walks into the room as Shead, Campbell and I talk is met with a smile and a brief chat about how they are getting on.

A smoking shed is adorned with names of mothers and children who have lived here before. Staff speak about how hard it is to say goodbye. The employees laugh together as they recount the time two of them delivered a baby on site. They talk about the heart-warming successes and how mothers from years ago still pop in with messages about how they are doing, and the heartbreak when the service gives all it can but a placement just won’t work out. There’s a sense of pride when they explain that women who have been through this house go on to work in this field, supporting others in counselling, even becoming social workers.

Two staff members chatting. Photo: Gary Brigden

Two staff members chatting. Photo: Gary Brigden

Support for mothers doesn’t just end with their placements. If they relocate to Plymouth, which many do, they can use The Sunflower Recovery Project, an extension of Trevi’s support. Funded by the Big Lottery Fund, it works to help women with resettlement, and aims to build a ‘recovery community’.

Staff on this project work from 8am to 8.30pm, seven days a week, to ensure that women are constantly supported to remain free from drugs and alcohol. There is also a peer mentor scheme, and in a local church hall a space for women to get together and socialise.

For Shead, the value of Trevi House is shown by what women say about it.

“They report time and time again that they just wouldn’t be able to do this if they didn’t have their child with them,” she says.

“Someone said to me just this week: ‘What you do at Trevi is it’s not that you give women back their children, you give children back their mothers.”

Nervous

It’s that outcome which Samantha hopes to get from her second time here. On the day we speak it’s one of her older children’s birthdays, but she has been told it’s best for recovery if she focuses on herself and her youngest daughter, still drinking milk in her arms.

In the long-term, she hopes to re-establish contact with her other children and to not relapse again. She believes she is in a better place this time and says she won’t move back up country after finishing her treatment.

“Obviously I’m still nervous because I have relapsed before, and drug and alcohol addiction has been a massive part of my life, but I’ve been given tools, [and been encouraged] to talk more. So if I’m feeling worried about anything, no matter how little it is, I can just phone somebody from here. It will be much easier,” she says.

“It is so important for the mother’s root cause to be fixed, and then hopefully you won’t have another generation of people doing the same things.”

*names have been changed. The baby in the photo is Hannah Shead’s, and not the child of a mother using Trevi House’s services. 

10 Responses to Inside the drug rehab ‘giving children back their mothers’

  1. Jenny Eckersley June 22, 2017 at 3:28 pm #

    There was a residential home in Norwich, where I placed a mother and her two children to try to help prevent the children being adopted. They were already on Interim Care Orders, and this was their mother’s last chance of having them stay with her. The system sounds very similar to the one at Trevi House, and it was a superbly supportive place to be. The mother did really well, and although there were later hiccups, she eventually turned her life around. Full marks to places like these. I had a hell of a job getting funding, but my boss ultimately agreed it was worth a try.

  2. Rosaline June 22, 2017 at 4:47 pm #

    The title says it all, a brilliant programme.

  3. Tom J June 22, 2017 at 4:57 pm #

    Wonderful- we need more and more projects like this.

    And before Theresa May pops up with her standard ‘no magic money tree’ mantra- Both morally and economically the long term pay offs are huge.

  4. Colleen June 23, 2017 at 10:35 am #

    What a truly inspiring place, Everyone deserves a chance and the opportunity to turn things around. I can only imagine with the right support the ripple effect this can have on the children and future generations in helping break the cycle.

  5. Joanna June 23, 2017 at 9:16 pm #

    I have placed mums n babies as the addictions social worker and mums n babies as the cp social worker over the last 12yrs. I have had to fight prejudice to get them places because i know Trevi works. Often its the last place that can. Pregnancy/mothering as a user/in recovery is one of the most discriminated against. As far as i know Trevi is the only place that does this which speaks volumes. Amazing place. Love to all the mums n staff n babies.x

  6. J louise June 23, 2017 at 9:59 pm #

    TREVI works miracles. I left with my son, then 2yrs old in 2006, after a 10yr battle with heroin. 4 years later I had a degree, pride, self worth & a happy confident child. 10yrs later I am running the company that took me on as an aprentice after my degree. I have a huge amount of gratitude & love for that place. I hope it gets the funding it deserves.

    • Zoe June 28, 2017 at 1:52 pm #

      J louise, what a wonderful, positive story. Congratulations.
      I’m shocked to read that Trevi is only half full with no waiting list. I am familiar with families with addiction and it’s been horrendous for the children, and continues to be so. I can only imagine it’s a funding thing and not because SW’s aren’t aware of it.

  7. Hannah Shead June 28, 2017 at 9:22 am #

    Thank you all for your lovely comments. J Louise, how wonderful to hear that you are doing so well – all credit to you!

    The reality is that prejudice towards mothers with addiction issues is still alive and kicking, however we have seen so many lives turned around at Trevi House and we passionately believe that when it is safe to do so, we must do all we can to keep babies with their mums.

    It is such a shame that the biggest reason that a family is denied access to our service is funding, surely if we take a longer term perspective this is the cheaper option?

  8. Shirley ( Lea) Holmes June 28, 2017 at 1:31 pm #

    When in post as parental substance misuse lead in LB Harrow , I placed mothers and children with the Trevi. It is a very effective and much needed intervention to support mothers and ultimately their children to have a positive future. Lee and the team are experts in the field.

  9. Lynne Brosnan July 12, 2017 at 12:36 pm #

    Really inspiring work. Full praise to all working on this project. As some have already said everyone deserves a second chance. Children should be with their parents wherever possible. We need more of these places. So pleased to see children remaining with their parents. Much more of these places should be available and should be a priority.